Let's get real

It is easy to get caught in the Instagram trap where one loses all sense of time.  How fun is it to see the photos of your family, friends, and inspirational strangers?  A lot of fun.  Come on!  Be honest!  But it is also a bummer.  Everyone looks so happy.  So perfect.  Mom's are crafting and homeschooling with perfection.  Dad's are piggyback carrying their kiddos at the beach while carrying the beach bag and chairs and smiling.  Abs are exposed and 8-packs seem to have a spotlight shining on them. Kids are smiling and posing and hugging and reading and...agh!  We see perfection!  I love seeing success and happiness and inspiration.  But...

I'll be honest here, I end up feeling as if I am constantly doing something wrong.  Parents are tired more often than rested and if we fail to be in a state of mindful awareness (hello...tired parent, here!) we forget that we are human.  We aren't beings of perfection.

  Authenticity is something I seek in life and relationships.  And it is hard to have authentic relationships when imperfections are hidden.  Or at least, I think so.  Here ya go...my "fails" and those wild moments parents rarely share of their kids.  Let's be present and authentic together...not perfect.

As you can see, my "little angels" are wild children being children and well, quite destructive.  Let's call them little scientists.

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This is how my littlest likes to fall asleep.  Hands always on my face.  Often with a finger up my nose or down my shirt.

This toilet disaster happened within seconds of disappearing from the kitchen just one wall away.

This toilet disaster happened within seconds of disappearing from the kitchen just one wall away.

Again, my littlest beefcake, who may be the next American Ninja Warrior can open almond milk containers and thinks this is funny.  Again...happens in seconds.  You'd think I was somewhere neglecting them...oh no, I'm right near by cooking …

Again, my littlest beefcake, who may be the next American Ninja Warrior can open almond milk containers and thinks this is funny.  Again...happens in seconds.  You'd think I was somewhere neglecting them...oh no, I'm right near by cooking or entertaining my other two children.  Or maybe going to the bathroom with the door open.

Oh yes I did share this.  Sorry if you can't handle it.  No, I'm not ashamed.  Maybe I should be for my child but this is me cleaning up poo since my not even two year-old thinks he is ready to potty learn.  You are welcome for c…

Oh yes I did share this.  Sorry if you can't handle it.  No, I'm not ashamed.  Maybe I should be for my child but this is me cleaning up poo since my not even two year-old thinks he is ready to potty learn.  You are welcome for covering it up :-)

Here, again, the beefcake.  He needs to fall asleep with his hands down my Aunt's shirt. 

Here, again, the beefcake.  He needs to fall asleep with his hands down my Aunt's shirt. 

Love You,

MLC